“… Why Did WE Break Up … … And Never Speak Again? … … Because …  … You Would Not Accept Me…   … ‘As I Am’ …” … The Title of This Earlism … … Is Borrowed From A Lyric in a Mary J Song …  … I Wrote in Enoch’s Journey: Seven Steps to ‘Was Not’ … ……

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“… If You Steal SomeThing … … Or SomeOne … … You Can NEVER …  … EVER Expect ‘It’ …  … To Truly Be ‘Yours’ …” … Stealing Means … To TAKE SomeThing or SomeOne That Does Not Belong To You … … See Earlism #19 Stealing …

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“… You do not always get to … … Nor do you always have to … … Act on your Feelings …” … Feelings … By Their Nature … … Require Additional thinking, timing, praying, and opportunity … … Marketers call that … A Strategic Window … … For Example … … Just because you “Like” Someone … … And you have Feelings … For Someone … … Does not necessarily…

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“… Fix it from here …” … A Bit of Advice …  … That is Universally Applicable …  … And Can Be Germane in MANY Situations …  … In this case …  … Advice I used to give to my Probation and Suspension Academically At Risk Advisees …   … Stating that they Should Not Look to Their Past … …

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“… God is Not in the Business …  … Of Making Us ‘Feel’ Safe …  … Nor …  … Providing Us with A ‘Safety Net’ …  … A Secure … Short-Term Circumstance or Provision …  … Not When He Has Us … … Take A HUGE STEP!!! … … Out In Faith …” … I once…

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Editors Note: At the end of this Long Form Essay, I am going to post an excerpt from the Final Draft Version of my book Enoch’s Journey: Seven Steps to ‘Was Not.’ The excerpt is titled “Battle Plans: A Dialogue.” It is my version of a Conversation that took place between God & Joshua, when God gave Joshua the Seven…

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I once asked one of my (former) Advising students … “… When are you going to stop hurting my friend? …” Many people CHOOSE … … To hurt themselves …  Typically by returning …  … Time and time again to the wrong ‘man/woman’ …  … The ONE who keeps hurting you …  It is like repeatedly throwing…

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