Earlism #79 Chemistry … Passion
“… Chemistry Is A Connection Between Two …
… …
… Passion Is A Stirring In You …”
The Hallmark Channel
… I have long wondered aloud … Why I LOVE to watch the Hallmark Channel … Though in reality I actually have my seasons when I watch regularly … And then I have times when I take extended breaks from Hallmark Channel Movies …
… After all … The scripts and plots are very similar … And the outcomes are generally preordained …
… But for some reason they fascinate me …
… My most recent fav is Fashionably Yours …
… I get it … I am a ‘Hopeless Romantic’ at heart … But that does not fully explain my attraction to the Hallmark Channel …
… I finally figured it out one day …
… I like to see and figure out if the paired couple in the movie have …
… Real Chemistry … OR … If they are just scripted to come together in the end and they exhibit some form of self-directed, internally motivated … Passion toward each other … Based on what they once wrote on a piece of paper … or thought was ‘Their Type’ …
… Watching the Hallmark Channel … Is just my way of being …
… A self-proclaimed ‘Highly Trained Observer of the Human Condition’ …
… A Personality Portrait Stuff …
Chemistry vs. Passion
In short …
… Chemistry is difficult to define … But you know it when you see it and ‘FEEL’ it …
… You also know when you DONT have it …
Passion on the other hand is easier to spot … It is simply some internal drive to have and likely hold someone …
… Now that other Someone may not likely nor initially return your Interest … And they generally do not share the Drive or Intensity to … ‘Get With You’ … In the same way that you Desire to … ‘Get With Them’ … But eventually they might exhibit in return … Some SHORT TERM … Desire toward you …
… Chemistry is a manifested True Connection …
… Passion is just your Soul or Ego (Freud) working overtime …
… Chemistry USUALLY works long term …
… Because it is SO RARE AND HARD TO FIND …
… Passion fades …
… Particularly … If you actually ‘Get What You Want’ …
Help Me … Help You …
… Here is one way to tell the difference … A person once told me …
… A person that I actually, gladly do not speak with any more …
… “You have to learn to distinguish the difference between the people who are Sent to ‘Help You’ …
… From the people who you are Sent to ‘Help’” …
… Or Stated Another Way …
… Is there real Chemistry between you two …
… Is (s)he a helper …
… Made Just For You? …
The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone … I will Make a Helper who is Just Right for him.”
Genesis 2:18 (NIRV)