“… If you …

… played the Club …

… played the Diamond …

… played the Spade …

… played the Heart …

… and you lost every hand …

… Then it ain’t the cards …”

Meaning: 

For example, if you have been married more times than Elizabeth Taylor, and you end up divorced every time … 

… Then it ain’t the husbands! You are in desperate need of A LOT of introspection, soul-searching, humility, & Healing …