Earl A. Jones, Ed.D.

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Earlism #23 When Helping Others With Their Problems …

(Part 1)

“… Nobody cares what “you” think! …” 

… Why Not? …


No one wants or NEEDS to hear or know what YOU think or “feel” about their problems …

This is the ultimate Counseling, Advising, & Skilled People Helping Proverbial Truth:

Only tell people what Has Been Factually Revealed to you about them, regarding the issues, situations, and concerns being discussed. 

Get your-‘SELF’ out of the entire conversation.

All of the people who you are helping need to and want to know are the things that are Factually Correct and/or ‘What God Knows (2 Kings 4:27).’ 

Not what you “feel” or personally think about their issue, concern, or problem.

ALSO

Another Earlism could be: Ear not Mouth

Nobody wants your advice …

Meaning, the advice that comes from your mouth, thoughts, emotions, predispositions, & “feelings” …

They only want your ear …

Learn to listen actively & attentively.